If you are one of those people who wishes they had more confidence then it’s time to stop wishing! You can start today learning the confidence building techniques that really confident people use without even knowing. If you asked the most confident people to describe how to do confidence, they probably wouldn’t be able to tell you – they’d probably just say “I don’t know how I do it – I just do it!”. The best way to learn how to do confidence is to really closely observe people who are already highly confident. As a result of your observation start to put into practice in your own life some of their attitudes and behaviors.
Confidence Building Techniques
- You have got to learn to love yourself – we learn a lot of crap about putting others before ourselves, not appearing vain or selfish, etc., etc. Some of that comes from a misinterpretation of religious teaching. And some of it comes from parents and authority figures. If you believe in God, just think about it – isn’t not loving yourself a sin? After all, He created you, didn’t He? Even if you are not religious, ask yourself, what’s wrong with loving and respecting and appreciating yourself? People who have high levels of confidence generally tend to love and believe in themselves.
- You have to be careful what you feed your mind – a good example of that over the past number of years since the Lehman Brothers debacle and the general downturn in Western economies are people who all believe “there are no jobs out there” or “the country is in a bad state”. I regularly meet people who buy into that crap and my best advice is STOP ! Stop listening to doom and gloom news stories. Stop hanging around with negative people. And stop feeding your mind negativity. Start feeding your mind with information and reading materials that are consistent with your desire to become more confident.
- You have to have a plan or a reason – in order to generate confidence, you must have a plan for the future. This plan has to be one that you really want to achieve. Alternatively it has to be some value system that is really important to you to live up to. For some people that’s building a home for themselves and their family while for others it’s about following in someone’s footsteps or living up to some ideal or other.
- You need to become grateful – being grateful for what you already have is part of the process of attracting more of what you want. In confidence terms, that means being grateful for the level of confidence you already have, however low it currently is.
Confidence Building Self Hypnosis Recording
A really nice way of feeding your mind with ideas and suggestions that are consistent with the confidence that you want to have is to download and listen to a self-hypnosis recording. There is a wonderful confidence building self hypnosis mp3 available on this website called “Improve Your Confdence” and you can download it RIGHT NOW by clicking here.